Helping you to Embrace the Sh*t out of your Body, Brain, and Self
You, YES YOU, are a powerful, beautiful goddess being! Can't see it? Not yet! If you don’t practice self-love and body acceptance, it can be really hard to believe that you're worthy of love and attention.
Self Love Tool Chest brings you tools that are not only 100% unique to our shop but also seek to empower you to love yourself, build confidence, and combat anxiety.
We Are Anti-Diet, Anti-Self Shame, and 100% Pro-YOU
Nia Patterson (they/she) is a well-respected Black and Queer mental health advocate, social activist, artist, content creator, podcaster, and business owner.
She is the creator behind @TheFriendINeverWanted and artist behind @SelfLoveToolChest. They are also the host and producer of the Body Trauma Podcast you can listen to here and also on Instagram @bodytraumapod.
Their work is mainly centered around the Eating Disorder Recovery, Fat Activism, LGBTQIA+, and Self Love communities.
Nia is passionate about advocating for people in marginalized bodies and seeks to bring resources to those who do not readily see representation and healthcare for themselves.
Hear What Our Customers Have to Say
Perfect pinbacks!
These pin backs are really good quality. They fit all of my metal and enamel pins very well, and I can tell they're really sturdy. These are a great addition to my pin collection, especially since I plan on using these to attach a bunch of pins to my jean jacket.
Noel Wharton
Locking Pin Backs - Add On
I love the colors!
The design is so fabulous! I love the variety of colors and the brilliance of the gold and the enamel. Great quality materials.
Noel Wharton
You Don't Have to Earn Self Care Enamel Pin
Cute Pin!
I love the design and bright colors! Great quality and durable materials. Colors true to posting photos.
Noel Wharton
LGBT Gay Pride Rainbow Enamel Pin
Gorgeous, colorful
Love having this mindful message pin to remind myself whenever I look at it. Pictures cannot do this pin justice, it's so beautiful in person.
Annie
Mindfulness Glitter Rainbow Sunset Mental Health Enamel Pin
Perfection
I love these notecards! I'm excited to share them but I also want to keep them to myself because I love them so much! Definitely going to purchase more to spread the love
Annie
Rainbow Quote Illustrated Postcard Prints
Perfect!
Love this pin! Can't wait to wear it out! Great message to promote.
Annie
You Don't Have to Earn Self Care Enamel Pin
Beautiful pin I’ve been wanting to get. Holiday time is the perfect time to splurge and buy something for everyone I know!
Crystallena Christensen
You Don't Have to Earn Self Care Enamel Pin
A great gift for planner enthusiasts
My daughter asked for these stickers for her planner and she loves them! Her favorite thing about the book is the wide variety of messages - one for every mood.
Mike L
Mental Health and Body Positivity Watercolor Silver FOILED Sticker Book
Beautiful
This pin is soooooo pretty in real life. The glitter really gets me!! It makes the perfect addition to my vision board as an evergreen reminder to be present in every moment! Love it!
E.Z.
Mindfulness Glitter Rainbow Sunset Mental Health Enamel Pin
Overthinkers Club pin
Wish I'd known years ago that we had a club! At least now I have a really cute pin to acknowledge my existence as an overthinker.
June
Overthinkers Club Enamel Pin
Perfect for my office
The messages and colorful artwork convey the vibe of my therapy office, and they are perfect addition to dress of my wall.
Jennifer
Rainbow Quote Illustrated Postcard Prints
Big Brain Pin
I love this pin so much. It's so cute, the colors are fab, and it really helps me express one aspect of myself. If you buy one make sure you grab some locking pin backs as an add on. They're great together.
Meghan M.
Overthinkers Club Enamel Pin
Awesome Pin
I'm so happy I got this pin. It's such a great reminder for me. The pin is beautiful, and looks even better in person. Paired with the locking pin backs it's a perfect purchase.
Meghan M.
Depressed and Resilient Medal Mental Health Enamel Pin
The Best Pin Backs!
These pin backs are the best! I love how the keep all my pins safely where I've put them. I've bought them for all the pins I wear or display. Highly recommend!
Meghan M.
Locking Pin Backs - Add On
Love it!!
I have severe anxiety and wanted a lanyard to let people know to be patient with me. This is PERFECT! It's cute, has a wonderful message, and turned out to be amazing quality! I ordered it Tuesday and it already arrived the Saturday of the same week! Amazing, I love it! ♡♡♡ (PS. The packaging was magical)
Eri
Anxious and Capable Mental Health Awareness Lanyard